Wisdom Dresses the Soul in Honor

This morning, as I thanked God for waking me up to see another day, my thoughts turned to my niece—my pride and joy. She graduated last week and will be starting high school in August. Watching her grow into her own person—loving, grounded, articulate, and kind—fills my heart with joy. Sure, she has all the usual teenage traits, but they don’t overshadow the goodness that shines through her. I believe that light comes from God and is nurtured by her wonderful parents. My sister and brother-in-law are doing an amazing job raising her (I’ll dedicate a whole post to her achievements soon!). Did I mention I’m one proud aunt?

Thinking about her brought me back to our own parents and the incredible job they did raising us—teaching us right from wrong, grounding us in moral values rooted in God’s Word, showing us what kindness looks like, and above all, creating a safe and loving home. These are the essentials that help children grow into responsible, compassionate adults.

I feel so grateful that God has bound us together in love, placing us where we are meant to be, with those we’re meant to be with. That, to me, is the true essence of godly wisdom—living in step with His purposes and design.

And then my mind turned to our Heavenly Father. If our earthly parents love, encourage, and protect us in so many ways, how much more does our Father above? He has given us His Word as a guide—a constant reminder to live wisely, according to His truth.

When we choose to walk in godly wisdom, our lives become steadier, our relationships kinder, and even when challenges arise, we’re quick to recognize mistakes and seek forgiveness.

This led me to the book of Proverbs, which overflows with wisdom. Proverbs 1:8-9 says:

“My son, hear the instruction of your father,
And do not forsake the law of your mother;
For they will be a graceful ornament on your head,
And chains about your neck.”

This beautifully describes wisdom as a graceful ornament on our head and chains around our neck—a symbol of honor and protection, not burden or weight.

To me, wisdom is like a gentle crown, something that lifts and supports us from within.

But there’s a deeper wisdom—one that comes from truly knowing God and His Word. The Bible is more than rules; it’s a light for the dark days, a loving friend who quietly guides our hearts and shapes how we think and love.

I’ve found that spending time with God’s Word—however long or short that might be—helps me grow. Not into someone perfect, but into someone who walks more gently, more confidently, and more purposefully each day.

1. Start with Scripture – Begin your day with even a single verse. Let God’s truth settle in your heart.
2. Seek Wisdom in Small Moments – Pause before you respond, pray before you act.
3. Learn from the Past – Godly wisdom often grows from humble reflection.
4. Stay Connected to Godly People – Surround yourself with those who walk in light and grace.
5. Honor Your Heritage – Give thanks for the guidance of parents, mentors, and the Spirit who leads you still.

Maybe you’ve felt this too—that godly wisdom isn’t about having all the answers, but about growing into who you’re meant to be, with kindness and peace.

Whether it’s the quiet lessons from Scripture, the loving correction from a parent, or a nudge from the Holy Spirit, wisdom becomes a crown—not of weight, but of wonder. A quiet strength. A gentle honor.

Let it dress your soul daily. 💛

So whether it’s the lessons from the quiet nudges from God’s Word, our parents, or mentors, godly wisdom is like a crown we wear—not as a heavy burden, but as a beautiful reminder of our worth and the journey we’re on.

Mel

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